A versatile joke similar too that's what she said. Mostly used as a joke or as a insult towards a male. Maybe used toward females depending on the conversation.
"Man, last night was awesome. That blowjob was great."
"Giving or receiving?"

"Man, I sure love anal sex!"
"Giving or receiving?"

"My man sure is a freak, we stayed up all night doing anal."
"Were you giving or receiving!!!?"
by Capt.Rayban January 28, 2010